Understanding and Helping The Ego

If you liken it to a clock, the ego is what holds the long, short, and second hands of the clock together, making sure that they all beat and tick at the precise moments in order to tell the right time. But when the ego is overwhelmed, sometimes the clock can experience a malfunction, wherein the hands of the clock are either moving too fast, too slow, or they've just come to a complete stop.

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On The Reading List: Books to develop your inner power

Psychologist, Julian Rotter, in his theory of Locus of Control posits that every single human being has the power to influence the outcome of situations when their locus of control is internal. When the locus of control is external, however, the individual turns to external events in explaining their own circumstances. While it's always good to have a mix of both, it also pays to discover and develop our inner power. This is why I've put together a list of four books that range from evidence-based psychological studies to spiritually driven content to help you discover your inner power to influence the outcome of all situations in your life (and sometimes vice versa). 

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FREE MEDITATION: Honoring Your Personal Blocks

The following exercise draws on techniques learned in coaching, counseling, and energy healing. While it is not meant to make your blocks magically disappear, it is meant to help you identify and acknowledge them before moving forward. 

Find a spot where you will be undisturbed for the next 9 minutes as you dive in to Honoring Your Personal Blocks

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Sometimes You Aren't Meant to Go Against The Current. Here's Why:

"I don't know," she said, "all I know is I've been working so damn hard, swimming upstream..." 

Well, girl, sometimes we just aren't meant to go against the current. When things aren't going according to plan, stop for a moment, and consider asking yourself one thing - What am I resisting? 

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Celebrating Moments of Existence: Exercises in self-compassion

With health issues like depression and anxiety on the rise, we encounter people who question their existence and sometimes wish they weren’t alive. At what point did the people around them stop celebrating? And why? At what point did cultural norms ask them to set aside their child-like essence?

Here are a few self-compassion activities that may help you nourish your soul today:

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A Closer Look at Depression

In Asia alone 450 million people suffer from a mental illness or neurological disorder, with the Philippines having the highest incidence rate of depression in Southeast Asia (WHO, 2011). There are about 4.5 million Filipinos today who are reported to have depression with only 1 in 3 who seek help.  

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Tried and Tested Remedies That Help Relieve Anxiety

I am crazy about all of these things so it makes me so glad when people ask me to recommend something that will help them. In as much as I would love to talk about everything in my bag, I decided that I would keep this entry quite simple and give you three (3) of my faves that have been tried and tested to help relieve anxiety and bring me to an ultimate state of CALM. 

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